Is It Bad to suggest that a Fat Person should get a Gastric Byp and some lypo cuz they are too fat???

Some of you already know that i told my neighbor that she was morbidly obese and she got really mad at me. I don't think i did anything wrong, but anyway when i went to apologize like some people suggested i suggested she get a gastric byp and some lypo cuz she was wayyyyyy to big. Now she is even madder! Is this bad???